So given that statistically, dog bites are in fact irrelevant (Dog’s Bite but Balloons and Slippers are more Dangerous) , why is such a huge deal made about them? Why is it such a shock to people to be bitten by a dog? In no one’s book is biting a good thing but, it also isn’t an unnatural thing and certainly in most cases, it isn’t any worse physically than the normal damage we do to ourselves all the time. So then the real problem is the psychological damage it does. This damage is not caused by a door crushing a finger or a toe broken on a chair leg. We don’t feel resentment towards the door or the chair. We don’t feel attacked, or betrayed by inanimate objects. But because dogs have feelings and we have feelings towards them it is only natural that we take it personally when bitten.
So I think the real issue is not to tell people “don’t take it personally” (although maybe that would help) but to educate people on what pushes dogs to bite, why do they feel the need to bite and understand that it doesn’t mean the dog “hates” the person it bit. Most dogs that bite a level 1-3 (Ian Dunbar scale) aren’t biting out of anger, they are biting from fear, anxiety and/or the misunderstanding that it is their job to control the person (frequently why dogs do level 1 bites).
One statistic I found particularly interesting is the stat on city dogs VS rural dog bites. Do more city dogs bite or is it just that when rural people get bitten they aren’t as upset by it. Maybe living with more animals gives you an inherent knowledge of animal behavior. Or perhaps rural people really don’t get bitten as often because they have more respect for the animals themselves and don’t put them in positions where they feel they need to bite to defend their space.
I agree with the worry that not taking bites seriously enough might mean that people stop trying to prevent bites. But I doubt it will go that far. A dog that bites will always have to face consequences. I just hope that through education more people will see a bite for what it is, a preventable behavior that does not need to be taken personally but still needs to be addressed, because it means that something is wrong.